Students at the University of Ghana have expressed differing opinions on whether love or genotype should be the primary consideration when selecting a life partner. This follows advice from sickle cell survivor Edna Yaborley Abbey, who advised young people to be deliberate in choosing their partners.
Speaking in an exclusive interview on the Good Health Show with Wilhelmina Nii-Moi, Edna Yaborley Abbey encouraged young people to be intentional when deciding on a partner.
She revealed that she seeks a partner who is God-fearing and has the AA genotype.
”My ‘spec’ when going into a relationship is someone with the AA genotype and who is God-fearing. I will advise the youth to know what they need before going into a relationship,” she said.
In response to her statement, Univers Entertainment spoke to students to find out if they would choose love or consider the genotype of their partner.
One student believed that while Edna’s advice on genotype is important, love should not be ignored.
”The sickle cell survivor is focusing on genotype, but the love aspect is also important. Love should not be left out when choosing a partner,” the student said.
Another student emphasised that both love and genotype are equally important when starting a relationship.
”Both love and genotype are important, and neither should be neglected when searching for a partner,” the student noted.
A third student said couples should focus on truly knowing each other because relationships extend beyond having children.
”Childbirth is very important, but after the children grow and leave, you are left with your partner. You should know the person you are marrying and understand what your partner needs in the relationship,” the student explained.
Another student disclosed that he would prioritise love over genotype when choosing a partner.
”For me, I will focus on love. I believe most gentlemen focus on love, so I disagree with the sickle cell survivor. I would go into a relationship because of the love I have for my partner,” he said.
While love often forms the foundation of a relationship, understanding one’s partner and making informed health decisions can also contribute to a stable and healthy marriage.
Ultimately, finding a balance between emotional connection and responsible decision-making remains a conversation many continue to have before taking the next step towards marriage.
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Story by Juliana Okertchiri|univers.ug.edu.gh
Edited by Anita Azawodie
